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The pressure of wanting to do well can be fierce. Sometimes this pressure makes me want to go faster in live than is actually possible. I feel the need to hurry up or to skip ahead to where I think I should be. Let me tell you: it does NOT work. Every time I try to go faster than is naturally possible, I actually end up going slower or not getting started at all. Instead of hurrying up, slowing down and focussing on the basics is the remedy is what I found. Going fast = going slow? Multiple...
When we think about personal growth, we tend to think that we should start doing all kinds of (new) stuff. Start meditating, reading, exercising, learning a new skill. And although this could be an entrypoint onto a path of growth, sometimes that step is too big, unclear or unaffordable. I'm making a case for the opposite option; quitting. Quit doing that which is not serving you. That is easier said than done, but sometimes it actually is the easier way to go. So, being bored instead of...
This is what my life looked like a while back, when I was in university: Study a bit or work a side job during the day, go home, eat with housemates, watch TV or play a video game and go to bed, probably with a little buzz from the few beers I drank in that evening. Getting out of bed in the mornings was hard and I didn't have a consistent routine. Although there is enough from that time to look back on with a smile, things were not working out for me in general. I had gradually been...